I found these on our camera that we’ve fired up for our vacation.
Author: Lisa
Ian and his Super Awesome Pin Wheel
The Intermediate Normal
Dear Ginger –
Today, Daddy showed me a video of you when you were sick, trying to walk to one of your favorite places: The Dog Park. I could see the pain in your gait and in your face, and I knew instantly that we were right to let you go to sleep.
We are still having trouble getting used to the “new normal”, the life without you. It’s horrible to want a hug from your favorite dog and not be able to have it. Molly just isn’t compensating for you, but we don’t expect her to, really. She is her own little being.
We look at your pictures and your videos, like the one where you played fetch with the parrot (the tennis ball, actually) and the one where you decided sledding with Brittany was a big race down a snowy hill, and your favorite new thing! And the one where we tried to get you to swim in the pool and you decided that was a creepy thing. 🙂
We miss you every day and wear your memory around our necks. We will look back at you fondly as “The Best Dog Ever” and love you always.
Have fun chasing the butterflies and bunny rabbits. Watch out for the crazy squirrels. You know how chatty they can be. 🙂
Love,
Mommy
Ashes to ashes, dust to dust
Dear Ginger,
We received your ashes from the veterinarian today. It was sad at first, because it’s difficult to see a dog you loved reduced to ashes in a box. We wanted you whole again, but of course that wasn’t possible. You went quickly from us, and I think that was the hardest part… not being able to prepare. But then, how could we prepare to lose you. You went quickly, and this was a blessing for you, my dear dog.
They put your ashes in a nice cedar box with your name on it, and a lock and key. We decided to fill our remembrance jewelry so that we could keep you close to us. We took your ashes to your favorite spots… the dog park, the corner at the end of the street, and the two spots where you used to lay in the sun in the morning and afternoon and enjoy the outdoors.
At first, it was hard to spread your ashes, but then I started to feel you everywhere around us, and this was a wonderful feeling.
The rest of your ashes are in a box we will always keep with us.
We love and miss you, dear dog. You were the best dog ever, and we shall go on, remembering all of the good you did and all of the love that was shared between all of us.
Love,
Mommy
Ginger
Ginger passed away on the morning of May 10, 2013. It was a Friday, at 9:10 AM.
She had spleen cancer and was really struggling to breathe with a softball-sized tumor in her chest. She also had anemia and a rapid heartbeat. The vet said the tumor could rupture at any moment, which would cause a more horrible and immediate death, so we decided to say goodbye to her and have her put to sleep.
It was heartbreaking. One second your dog is alive and the next, she had gone to sleep and stopped breathing. Forever. It was the most difficult moment in my life.
Each of us had our own special piece of Ginger’s life. A 2-year old Brittany welcomed her into our home. I have to say that Ginger was the most tolerant puppy ever. She loved and loved and didn’t even growl or do anything untoward when her tail was pulled or her ears were made into rabbit ears by the little girl, who would be her best mate for 11 years. They ran through water sprinklers together and ran through the park, played with Frisbee’s and balls.
Ian met Ginger roughly 5 years ago. She was his workmate, since he worked from home, his (and her) lunch break at the dog park every afternoon, the person Ginger could pretend she was a lap dog with and cuddle up to and learn from. She laid so close to him during the day that he almost ran over her with his work chair countless times. I think Ian’s favorite thing was when Ginger found someone else’s tennis ball or toy at the dog park and decided it was going to be hers now. And the hugs, which he trained her to do. They had a very special bond.
To me, Ginger was my faithful companion. She protected me, always. I was always in the right, no matter what. She would stand and bark at Ian, if I was pretending to smack him, for example. She followed me everywhere I went when I was home. We went for walks when I was out of sorts, or not, and she was my comfort always. Anytime I needed a hug or just wanted a hug, she was there, ready to give one, and some kisses.
She was a joker and the most reliable, well-mannered dog ever. She liked to play catch with the parrot. She hated water. She SO LOVED to run like a mad hatter, with her “kangaroo legs”. When Ginger sensed she was going somewhere, she wanted to get there quickly!
Ginger would often spread out in the yard, like a frog, in the sun and watch everything around her… the trees blowing in the wind, squirrels, bunny “labbits” and other dogs. She was always so happy to see us and wagged her tail everytime she saw anyone she wanted to say hello to, and hug in her special way.
I shall miss my sweet dog. There won’t be anyone just like her again. She has a bit of my heart with her at the Rainbow Bridge.
Mother’s Day
Dear Ginger –
Today was Mother’s Day. We went to the market where we saw people with their dogs, and even one with 3 golden retrievers. It was fun to see them all. We went for a walk in the park to see all the ducks and geese. Britty sat on the edge of the wall and tried to feed them bread. Later, we went to the Nebraska Humane Society to look at all of the dogs. We found a dog we liked and saw him in a meet and greet room. His name was Simon. He was a good dog, but he wasn’t you. He was a bit cuddly, but a bit jumpy, too. He kind of liked balls, but not as much as you did.
I guess it is too early to think about “other dogs”. I just really want one like you. 😦
Love, Mom
Photos of You




May 11, 2013
Dear Ginger –
Molly is going to get really fat. She is eating up all of the snacks she normally gets and the ones you normally get. So far, she has had several pancakes, quite a few cookies, and also some french fries.
To be honest, I feel a bit sad for her. It’s not possible to tell a dog that their long-time dog friend is gone. Maybe you could do me a favor and just pass that onto her. She is walking around sometimes looking around to see where you are. You’re not on the balcony, or anywhere in here, she is finding out.
When we come home at night or at lunchtime, she doesn’t hear us. We didn’t realize she was taking so many queues from you. She can’t hear very well, really.
I just want to let you know that we are thinking of you and love you so much. We are sad that you’re gone. We keep thinking about you and how hard it is for you to be away from us now. It was all so sudden, your going. But we’re going our best to remember the good times with you (there were no bad times) and adjust to our different lives. You will live on in our hearts forever.

Ginger in 12-2003



